February 6, 2012

Well, I have decided that I really need to be thankful for all that I have in my life. Sometimes we focus on what we don't have so much that it overshadows the blessings we are given every day. So, as part of a New Year's resolution, I am going to keep a gratitude journal expressing gratefulness for the things I have. So here it goes, what I am grateful for today.

1. My family: My family means everything to me. They have been there for me through thick and thin, they have supported me to the end. Life has not always been a basket of roses, however if you have good people by your side it makes it a little easier. I am so blessed to have a mother, father, brother and extended family that invest so much in me and my life.

2. My friends: Having been in relationships before where I was unable to have friends, it is amazing to me to have the group of friends I have today. My life is so full of wonderful people, some I never thought would be by my side. My girl's nights keep me sane. My daily conversations with my best friend brings me joy and keeps me grounded. I have some friends I don't talk to on a daily basis, but when we do connect it is like we never missed a beat. God has put some amazing people in my life and I am so grateful for them.

3. My husband: I am not going to try to act like my relationship is perfect because no one has a perfect marriage. However, when times get tough, we cling to each other. Our ups and downs are a reminder that we are trying. Of course there are things about him I could live without and vice versa, but the good outweighs the bad and that is what counts. 3 years later, we have a beautiful son, a strong foundation and ultimately love.

4. My son: What can I express about my son? My miracle child, my wonderful little man. He is my joy, my heart, my life. He shows me new things about myself every day. The ability to mold and teach a child was a dream I was told would never come true. Yet, here he is, laughing, walking, playing, throwing things, being a boy! Thank you Jayden for allowing me to feel a love I never thought possible.

5. My best friend: Last, but surely not least, I am thankful for my best friend Denae. I have been friends with Denae for about 4 years now. We have grown closer these past few months and I couldn't be more happy. We text each other all day long! I am even hoping to get a job working with her. Jayden adores her, his little face lights up when she comes in the room! We have joined Weight Watchers together and are getting healthy together. She is my strength, my rock, my confidant, my cheerleader and my sister. Thank you for all that you do Denae!